Jan 2010 13

Im in a crappy mood today because Im 38 weeks pregnant and I want to work things out with the father of my child, but he broke up with me 3 months ago and he still doesnt want to work things out. I would love to grow with the father of my child and have a real family and maybe even more kids by the same man someday, but he's absolutely against it. He said we've tried too many times. Im just sad about it. I've cried and I feel like I will never be able to give my baby the family he deserves. Im 20 years old, working on my bachelors in the meantime just in case you all wanted to know. So I do have goals and I am a well rounded person. Now, my ex is seeing other females, but he still wants to be in the babys life. Its gonna be hard for me to accept, because I still have feelings for him and I want a family with him. I dont want some other female taking my spot. Hard to deal with

[by With Sympathy on Mon January 18, 2010 01:51:56 am]
Man, that really sucks the situation you're in, but keep your head up. In just a couple weeks, you're going to have a beautiful baby who unconditionally loves you. I'm sure as soon as your ex sees the baby, he'll want to be more in the baby's life. You can't be together "just because of the baby." It's not fair for the two of you. But you can definitely be there for the baby. Sounds like he's already on board for that anyways. Only worry about the next couple weeks and having a smooth delivery. Don't unnecessarily stress yourself out now. The rest will take care of itself as time goes by. Just take a day at a time.

[by Anon on Wed January 19, 2011 05:16:55 am]
It breaks my heart when I hear stories like you. Most of the time it will work in your favor. He is not willing to make an effort to be with you at a time when you need his support. that also should be a red flag that he is a looser. After you have baby and your hormones settle down I do hope that you find your inner peace.

[by Anon on Wed July 13, 2011 03:19:11 pm]
i know this wont help, but i know now you really want to work things out but i think you and your baby will be much better without him.. only decent guys would want to keep trying to sort stufff out.. i really hope stuff goes well for you and your little baba, you sound like you deserve it

[by Anon on Sat November 19, 2011 03:55:10 pm]

[by Anon on Mon December 26, 2011 10:39:31 pm]
I agree with that third comment down, if he doesnt want to man up and be in the relationship then you and that child are better off. if i were you I would tell him he cant have anything to do with that baby until he grows a pair, works this out, and maybe even puts a ring on your pretty little wedding finger.

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