Jun 2013 27

I recently learned about "Demisexuals"

For anyone like me that didn't know this term, here is a definition:
"A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. The term demisexual comes from the orientation being "halfway between" sexual and asexual"

As a 23 year old virgin that has little interest in sex, this actually explains quite a bit about my sexual behavior- especially through high school and college.

But I'm also very confused. Aren't MOST people like this anyway? Or does everyone sexualize people they meet and think "Hm. I wanna f**k that person" after just a few minutes?


[by Anon on Mon June 2, 2014 07:35:26 am]
No man, I think I may be demisexual too. Some people have really strong sexual urges and put little thought on a bond before they choose a partner. Or maybe believe they can dominate over such partner instead of actually forming an emotional bond. Or maybe they're even afraid to form an emotional bond but they still want to satisfy their own urges. Different personalities open up to different sexualities, and sexuality is complicated but you should definitely focus on accepting yours. Just because people like to screw around with little precaution or feel easier attraction doesn't mean you have to. In the end finding a partner is not about forcing yourself to fit in but finding someone you are comfortable with for who you are :) Keep that in mind.

[by Marlie on Sun July 24, 2016 10:12:35 pm]
Brclnialie for free; your parents must be a sweetheart and a certified genius.

[by Rosalinda on Mon July 25, 2016 08:36:53 am]
Plniaseg to find someone who can think like that

[by Navid on Tue July 26, 2016 01:55:18 pm]
The purasches I make are entirely based on these articles.

[by Tina on Tue July 26, 2016 08:54:06 pm]
That's really shewdr! Good to see the logic set out so well.

[by Winter on Wed July 27, 2016 04:19:21 am]
Fell out of bed feeling down. This has brgnhteied my day!

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