Mar 2014 22


Okay, let me explain to you a thing. Because I'm beginning to get fed up with the same responses from people. If you're unfamiliar with Asexuals, I suggest a quick google search.
I'm a 24 year old female virgin. A lot of people consider this unusual and there are many reasons for this, but a lot of it is due to some asexual tendencies that I have. When people find out that I've never had sex (or even when close friends are reminded of this), these are the most common responses I receive:

"Wow! That's really impressive"
Why? What the hell is so impressive? Am I enduring some sort of hardship that I'm COMPLETELY unaware of?

"I can't believe you've held out this long"
What the hell are you talking about? You make it sound like I'm using my epic sense of self control to SUPPRESS some sort of urge. THERE IS NO URGE! That's the point!

"Awww, are you waiting for 'The One'?"
The f**k? Oh yeah, I'm waiting for motherf**king prince charming over here. Cunt.

I'm not reserving myself for some mysterious special person.
I'm not waiting until after marriage.
I'm not suppressing an urge.
I'm not restraining myself from some kind of 'desire'
I'm not some hero that needs praise for not having sex.

I'm an asexual. I don't feel sexual attraction the same way you do, and I'm perfectly content with that. I'm not consciously doing anything to avoid having sex. I'm simply not having sex because I haven't felt like having sex. End of Story.

Is it really that hard to understand?

Why can't you listen to me?

[by Gracelin on Sun July 24, 2016 09:58:29 pm]
That's more than seisnble! That's a great post!

[by Bobcat on Mon July 25, 2016 08:36:44 am]
Free knowledge like this doesn't just help, it promote deacormcy. Thank you.

[by Stormy on Wed July 27, 2016 04:19:13 am]
The extespire shines through. Thanks for taking the time to answer.



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