Apr 2014 28

I am 23, and I live with my boyfriend whom I have been dating for 5 years now. He basically told me he doesn't love me anymore, and said that he doesn't want to try to fix us. This came out of nowhere, in case you were wondering. Clearly the right thing to do is to accept it and respect, and try to move on. However, I cannot afford to move out of his place. I have been living here for free, and I barely make enough money to pay my bills. I don't know what to do, or where to go. He's not forcing me to leave, however, it doesn't seem right for me to continue living here with a man who doesn't love me anymore. I moved to an entirely different county to be with him, so I do not have any friends or family down here that I could stay with, and I just got a new job down this way too...so it's not like I could just go back to where I came from. I am at a loss. If anyone out there has advice for me, I'd love to hear it. Finding out that you are not loved by the person you have been madly in love with for 5 years is quite a blow...I really need to grieve and am unable to by living here.

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