Dec 2011 02


This guy who I used to like keywords USED TO still thinks I like him because I'm not dating anyone and haven't dated anyone since our "date" 5 months ago. Of course I can't just ignore him because he is my best friend's brother and to completely get away from him I'd have to cut her out of my life which is not a sacrifice I'm willing to make. He is now dating someone else and always so edgy when the topic comes up and says he won't talk about when I'm around. I DON'T CARE!! Yes, he's dating one of my friends and I'm happy for them because I feel like their such a good couple, but I really want him to realize that I am completely over him! I've moved on with my life! Admittingly yes I liked him for 3 years and was the first guy I can say without a shadow of a doubt I loved, but that doesn't mean I want to date him now! I don't believe that he'd believe I'm over him unless I started dating someone else and made it "facebook official" It's so stupid!

[by A Helpful Hen on Fri December 2, 2011 11:00:08 pm]
If you really don't care, then you have to not care. By that I mean just ignore him, only being cordial when necessary. Guys are all about their egos so if you get worked up or emotional around him its only gonna make him feel like he is winning. Whenever you and your friends and him are all hanging out just focus on yourself and all the good things going on in your life and don't even pay him any mind. Just saying, play it cool, don't let him see you sweat...you have nothing to prove to him because only you know your life. And just remember, success is the best revenge and eventually you'll have someone else and you'll be happy internally.



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