Sep 2012 09

My partner of 19 years left me and the kids last Christmas. She was cheating for a year.I didn't even see it coming. I was wondering why she worked so much but never had any money and had to get money from me. Because of her, my house is in foreclosure, but I have paid off the other bills my self. She took custody of our soon making false accusation of neglect. Child protective has immediately saw them as false, but she has him anyway. He is miserable with her but he is afraid to make her angry at him for saying that he wants to leave. He says that at least he has a second chance of living with her again when my other kids didn't get that chance. My ex won't let him talk to us, but he sneaks and calls us anyway. She is a norther, selfish person. We all love him and miss him. My eldest soon misses his brother so much that he wants to live with my ex although her hates her and doesn't want to leave me.I don't trust anyone any more and it is starting to effect my relationships with others. I know that she would like to take custody of all of them because she does not want to pay child support. My heart is broken. Not for missing her but because my life has gone from okay to so many problems in less than a year. Life is not worth living without my children.

[by Anon on Tue September 11, 2012 10:44:19 pm]
Wow, I am so sorry to hear about your situation. Do you have a lawyer? Maybe you could petition for full custody? You need to document everything that she's been doing and get you and your kids out of this situation. It sounds like your kids would want to be with you anyways. It may get messy, but it already sounds messy. You need to get this fixed ASAP for yourself and your sanity.

[by Anon on Sun September 16, 2012 04:39:26 pm]
The courts are all for the woman even if they are wrong I have a friend his ex is the worst yet the courts take her side. My friend had lawyers and paid so much money and they did nothing. they would go to court and say a few words and it is adjourned a couple of weeks and again the same thing. Nothing ever got done. Very sad the kids know their mother is a dirt bag and they are only 5 & 8.

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