Aug 2011 19


I'm a 16 year old girl. And I don't even know what gender I like. When i was about 4 years old and my older sister was 6 years old she basically 'raped' me and forced me to do things with her. I think that honestly ruined my life. I didnt tell anyone about the incident until a month ago, my mom and my dad. My mom said I made the story up for attention and when she confronted my sister, A.K.A her favorite child she lied and believed her over me ! I'm mad because that's a sick thing to say so why would I make it up? My parents are divorced and when I told my dad he had pity towards me and said he would take me to a psychologist except he is a compulsive liar and that clearly never happened. Anyways, I don't know. I'm so confused about everything, I've gone out with boys except I don't let them do anything but kiss me because I get really uncomfortable and nervous. And I just feel so weird and confused, I hate this.

[by Anon on Fri August 19, 2011 04:42:48 pm]
Teenagers have it so very hard.. seriously. Hormones are raging, sex on their mind all the time, physiological induced.

My best advice to you. Please concentrate on your life and career. Being only 16 right now relationships outside of pure platonic friendships can be very very detrimental.

Please focus on your soon to be adult life and the right person .. boy or girl will come in due time.

Just take of #1 first.. mind AND body and everything else will follow.



[by Anon on Sun September 18, 2011 05:13:28 am]
Hey f-tard who wrote the above response.
This girl needs help and you expecting her in an emotional state to think like a put together adult.

Listen,
People do crappy things, and your sister did a crappy thing. She obviously has a lot of shame about it, and more importantly than lying to your parents she is lying to herself. She will carry that with her until she can be honest, and it will effect her inside. Just because she pretends it didn't happen doesnt mean she has blown it off.

Its clear you need someone to talk to about it, to believe you, and validate your feelings. See if you can speak with an adult at school about it.

It is normal to be confused about sexual orientation. Regardless of where you are right now and in dealing with it, just know that you are where you need to be and it is ok to be confused.

[by Anon on Sun September 18, 2011 05:13:50 am]
Hey f-tard who wrote the above response.
This girl needs help and you expecting her in an emotional state to think like a put together adult.

Listen,
People do crappy things, and your sister did a crappy thing. She obviously has a lot of shame about it, and more importantly than lying to your parents she is lying to herself. She will carry that with her until she can be honest, and it will effect her inside. Just because she pretends it didn\'t happen doesnt mean she has blown it off.

Its clear you need someone to talk to about it, to believe you, and validate your feelings. See if you can speak with an adult at school about it.

It is normal to be confused about sexual orientation. Regardless of where you are right now and in dealing with it, just know that you are where you need to be and it is ok to be confused.

[by Anon on Thu November 10, 2011 05:58:25 pm]
ur sister is a predator u both need help

[by Anon on Fri March 16, 2012 10:43:01 pm]
I'm so sorry for what happened to you as a child.

I suggest you visit your school's counselor.

Agreeing with the other comments, sexual orientation is okay to be confused about. Especially as a teenager.



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