Feb 2011 20
Sun February 20, 2011 12:21:22 pm
LET THE VENTING BEGIN.....
I've looked up several articles on how to deal with my girlfriend's mood swings and everything I received had to do with a litney of different things I should do to ease her pain. From give her massages or get into her head and see how she is feeling, reduce her stress, make sure I don't bug her, don't argue with her/ if she blames me for certain things positively answer her. F this madness. I'm trying to figure out when does a woman do this for a man. This PMS crap is not for a couple of days. This broad has it one week leading to her period, the second week is the week of her period and the 3rd week is the week after her period. I get one week of sanity until I have to go through this nonsense again. - ( "Well, how do you think she feels when she is going through it?) - Probably the same way I feel like reacting to her rants and raves, ripping her head off! I am slowly loosing my mind and the person I use to be. - I always felt that a woman's period was God's way of saying, "Hey dummy you shouldn't have eaten the damn apple and convince your husband to eat it with you." God said to Eve in the Bible, "I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow you shall bring forth children . For men we would have to work for anything in life. Adam he said, Because you have hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and have eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, You shall not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shall you eat of it all the days of thy life; In the sweat of thy face shall you eat bread, till you return unto the ground; for out of it wast you taken: for dust you art, and unto dust shall you return. I don't complain at the fact that I have to get up go to work and deal with the nonsense of work and high ass prices I have to pay for food etc. So on top of getting kicked out of the Garden of Eden essentially Paradise I have to put up with this nonsense of your period, are F'n kidding me? Suck that crap up and recognize all the things these crappy sites are telling me to do for you are things u don't do nor do I see u doing it for the one week out of every damn month u happen to be normal.
Wed February 23, 2011 03:09:20 am]
Man, I feel your pain. I really do. I'm on the flip side of the things, I'm the woman. I know my PMS can make me crazy, so much so I have to prepare for it days in advance. The thing is, I feel like i'm managing it so well, until BAM! Out of nowhere, craziness erupts. I can't even describe how strong whatever emotions I'm feeling at that moment - whether it's sadness, anger or happiness. It's just an extreme and I really feel like I have no control over it.
That being said, there are still realistic ways of managing it. Just like a guy is supposed to be a "little bit" more patient with the woman, she has to put up with a lot of things she considers "crappy behavior" as well.
You two should seriously talk it through. If she's near the PMSing time, best you avoid her. Best she lets you avoid her. Why put yourself in a situation that will end badly, you know? You love each other, you just don't love what her PMS does to her and how she ends up reacting. And vice versa, if you're being moody, she's gonna have to avoid you too. It goes both ways.
Most importantly, tell each other what you're feeling and how your behaviors make you feel. But MOST MOST importantly, don't do it while she's PMSing. Write it down, be calm and make sure she's in a good place. :)
Fri March 4, 2011 12:43:16 am]
Get her if you can, to drink more milk. It can really help with PMS Symptoms. good luck!
Tue March 8, 2011 01:01:28 am]
Was reading the post about the guy complaining about his girl having PMS. Just so you know, it goes both ways. I don't know what hits my boyfriend, but he gets PMS too and I feel like crap. It's worse when we both PMS. Watch out..