Aug 2011 30
Tue August 30, 2011 04:00:02 pm
I feel unfulfilled. I don't understand why.
I am young, I am 21.
I have a fiance who treats me like gold.
I'll be married in May.
I'm in college, I have a job I enjoy.
But I'm constantly angry and frustrated and the smallest thing sets me off the edge.
It's very frustrating.
Tue August 30, 2011 08:37:12 pm]
Sorry to hear about your frustrations, I think we've all been there at one point or another in our lives. You put your name as "Unsure" - what is it that you're unsure about it? Is it regarding your fiance? Having doubts?
I think it hits women differently, and sometimes multiple times, where we stop and think, what's going on? It's not how I thought it'd be. The best suggestion I can give is to try figure out what's bothering you (which is sometimes difficult) and try to change that. Or if you can't figure out what's bothering you, make changes in your life anyways. Shake things up. Change can sometimes help make things clearer for you. Also, meditation is a tremendously useful way of finding out what your inner thoughts are. Spend some quiet time by yourself, contemplating life, seeing where you are and visualizing where you want to be. That may help you understand where your frustrations are coming from. Even though things may seem good, life is all about improvement and betterment. And not being stuck in frustration. :)
Wed August 31, 2011 08:59:57 pm]
you need jesus in your life.
Thu September 1, 2011 12:25:46 pm]
i appologize for saying tht u need jesus in ur life. but mayb u should find a good church near you and get plugged in and staring thanking god for the things he's given to you.
Wed September 28, 2011 09:12:28 am]
You feel unfullfilled because you are just 21! Life has barely started. My best part of experiences are almostly all after that. So many things you will do and places you will go. It is okay to feel unsure of what you want. There are ways to help figure it out. Do you write? I suggest starting a journal. Everytime you have strong feelings, frustrations or happiness or whatever, write them down. Do that without judging yourself. This is for your own eyes only. No need to share with anyone. Keep it secret. Periodically re-read what you wrote and you will find out what your needs and wants and why you are feeling certain ways. You have a long journey ahead of you. Have a good life. Spend it meaningfully and fullfillment and contentment will come naturally. Good luck.